Sometimes we need to go out of our way and take a chance. Still, the fear of failure, of being laughed at; of being not liked, of being poorly allowed of; can keep us from pushing ourselves into the unknown; and make us move sluggishly in developing new chops, capacities, and life gests that can stop. Then in this post, we’re going to bandy how to motivate yourself.
How to motivate yourself
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It can lead us to resist offers to try new places and things to go to or speak at an event. Because of fear or anxiety about what might happen. We can second guess, ‘what if’ runs the narrative.
Perhaps we are unsure about what to say or do, are hesitant to risk looking ridiculous. are apprehensive about being embarrassed.
But other people also share those fears and concerns; and it can motivate and encourage them; when they see someone else taking a chance, refusing to come their way; and not stressing too much about the potential consequences. We do.
Others often appreciate and support those who try. So, why not decide to take some positive action instead, stop hijacking yourself; and enjoy the opportunity to step out of your comfort zone!
a) Start small
You gradually build up your confidence by taking it one step at a time.
If you have social anxiety, why not make a habit of going out for coffee; and lunch during busy times of the day instead of agreeing to dinner at a buzzing, ultra-smart restaurant?
Choose positive ways to take things at your own pace, make your day, and go out of your way!
b) Make habit
Make it a habit to hang out and hang out with different types of people. If you have a meeting, interview or presentation; practice drawing a few bullet points together and rehearse in front of a mirror or with a small, supportive audience. Focus on the areas you feel uncertain about.
c) Be aware of how you talk to yourself
We are often our own worst critics, scolding ourselves in ways that we never even dreamed of talking to others. Instead, tell yourself that you can do it; that it is worth it, that others are not as interested or invested in what you do; All the way to help remove any initial doubts and hesitations.
d) Address areas that feel neglected that need a little help.
Use this opportunity as inspiration to improve your appearance.
Your wardrobe, update your image; and benefit your conversational skills or education.
It may require a little effort, but that commitment will pay off by elongating your life.